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International Bestseller
A heart-wrenching, yet hopeful, memoir of a young marriage that is redefined by mental illness and affirms the power of love.
Mark and Giulia's life together began as a storybook romance. They fell in love at eighteen, married at twenty-four, and were living their dream life in San Francisco. When Giulia was twenty-seven, she suffered a terrifying and unexpected psychotic break that landed her in the psych ward for nearly a month. One day she was vibrant and well-adjusted; the next she was delusional and suicidal, convinced that her loved ones were not safe.
Eventually, Giulia fully recovered, and the couple had a son. But, soon after Jonas was born, Giulia had another breakdown, and then a third a few years after that. Pushed to the edge of the abyss, everything the couple had once taken for granted was upended.
A story of the fragility of the mind, and the tenacity of the human spirit, My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward is, above all, a love story that raises profound questions: How do we care for the people we love? What and who do we live for? Breathtaking in its candor, radiant with compassion, and written with dazzling lyricism, Lukach's is an intensely personal odyssey through the harrowing years of his wife's mental illness, anchored by an abiding devotion to family that will affirm readers' faith in the power of love.
Author Notes
Mark Lukach is freelance writer and teacher. He teaches history and is the ninth grade dean at the Athenian School. He first write about his wife in a New York Times "Modern Love" column and later in his book My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward. This book is a memoir of a young marriage that is redefined by mental illness and affirms the power of love. It has become an immediate bestseller.
(Bowker Author Biography)
Reviews (2)
Kirkus Review
How one couple battled together against the wife's mental health issue.Lukach, a ninth-grade teacher, and his wife, Giulia, had a near-perfect life. They'd met in college, almost instantly became a couple, and quickly grew their relationship into a classic love story. They had successful jobs, ambitions, and dreams that filled their lives. The years passed, and they agreed to have children. However, shortly after starting a new job, Giulia became increasingly anxious about work and life in general, and she began experiencing full-blown psychosis, requiring immediate hospitalization. Lukach does an excellent job of showing the rapid decline his wife experienced as she went through her first, second, and third breakdowns, the evolution of his role as caretaker and partner, and the roles played by their immediate families and closest friends in the recovery process. The author details the harrowing first moments in the hospital when no one quite knew what was happening to Giulia and the endless time he spent struggling to get answers from doctors and nurses. "The first few days of Giulia's hospitalization," he writes, "I spent almost every waking hour on the phone.With every call I made, I grew increasingly agitated at the inflexibility of the mental health system." Lukach recounts the deep, suicidal depression Giulia endured after returning home and the fears he felt for his wife's safety. The end of the first breakdown will come as a great relief to readers; by the third breakdown, they will know what to expect but will also share the author's fears for the safety and well-being of their young son. Lukach's compassion and love for his wife, as well as his fears and anger, are evident throughout, making this memoir a satisfying read despite the context of the story. An honest and rewarding memoir of a couple's compassion and love for each other. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
New York Review of Books Review
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Table of Contents
| 1 August 2000 | p. 1 |
| 2 July 2009 | p. 16 |
| 3 September 2009 | p. 46 |
| 4 October 2009 | p. 81 |
| 5 April 2010 | p. 111 |
| 6 August 2010 | p. 139 |
| 7 September 2011 | p. 154 |
| 8 October 2012 | p. 173 |
| 9 November 2012 | p. 202 |
| 10 April 2013 | p. 222 |
| 11 October 2014 | p. 242 |
| 12 November 2014 | p. 276 |
| Acknowledgments | p. 303 |
