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"... Insights from a time when a young person with autism grew up in a world where nobody understood them!" - Temple Grandin, author, Thinking in Pictures "An extraordinary look at autism from the inside - by turns heartbreaking, uplifting, illuminating, witty, and wise." - Steve Silberman, author, NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity Barbara Moran has never known how to be good. As a child, she made strange noises, fidgeted constantly, and licked her lips until they cracked. She had "upsets" that embarrassed and frustrated her family. Worse still, she developed friendships with inanimate objects--everything from roller skates to tables to an antique refrigerator--and became obsessed with images of cathedrals. She was institutionalized, analyzed, and marginalized, cast aside as not trying hard enough to fit in. But after almost forty years, Barbara was given an answer for her inability to be like, and to connect with, other people: autism. Hello, Stranger is the story of a misunderstood life that serves as an eye-opening call for compassion. Bracingly honest, Barbara describes the profound loneliness of being abandoned and judged while also expressing her deep yearning simply to be loved and to give love. Hello, Stranger is a challenge to every reader to see the beauty and the humanity present in every individual.
Author Notes
Barbara Moran is a graphic artist from Topeka, Kansas, who was not diagnosed with autism until she was in her early 40s. She has spoken autism conferences, and her artwork has been exhibited by Visionaries + Voices, at Bryn Mawr's annual Art Ability show, and at the MIND institute at the University of California-Davis. Barbara's art often focuses on personified objects such as locomotives, stoplights, and cathedrals. Barbara shares her home with her companion of forty years, Rooney, a 1934 Monitor Top GE refrigerator.
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Booklist Review
This illuminating memoir from artist Moran provides a window to better understand her reality as a person with autism and the historical experience of other individuals and families who grew up without the information about autism and spectrum disorders that we have now. With coauthor Williams, Moran shares experiences from her life before she was understood and diagnosed as autistic in her forties that are often sad and painful. For a time, she was institutionalized in a place where people were expected to heal, rather than being treated as already whole individuals. There's much hope in Moran sharing her story and helping others improve their understanding of autism and their relationships with people who are on the autism spectrum. She also sheds understanding on, for example, how she experiences noise and her attachment to or concern for inanimate objects. Moran's story is a must-have for public libraries. Readers should also seek out Ana Warner and Curt Warner's The Warner Boys (2018), for a memoir about autism told from parents' point of view.--Joyce McIntosh Copyright 2010 Booklist
Table of Contents
| Introduction | p. vii |
| Prologue | p. xiii |
| Part 1 The Years with My Family | p. 1 |
| 1 When I Was Little | p. 3 |
| 2 Gas Pumps, Geysers, and Traffic Lights | p. 8 |
| 3 A Horrible Driven Feeling | p. 15 |
| 4 Dr. Horowitz, Alias "Frank Sinatra" | p. 23 |
| Part 2 Menninger's: The Hospital | p. 27 |
| 5 At First It Seemed Like a Great Place | p. 29 |
| 6 Drifting Off to La-La Land | p. 38 |
| 7 You Push People Away | p. 44 |
| 8 Barbara, You Have to Tell Me | p. 49 |
| 9 On Drugs | p. 51 |
| 10 Does God Really Exist? | p. 58 |
| 11 Metaphors and Subconscious Anger | p. 61 |
| 12 Whitney Hall | p. 67 |
| 13 The Older Girls | p. 71 |
| 14 Cathedrals | p. 77 |
| 15 My First Visits Home | p. 81 |
| 16 Fancy Clothes and Safe Men | p. 87 |
| 17 To Get out of Menninger's | p. 90 |
| 18 Traffic Lights and Tornados | p. 92 |
| 19 Jealousy | p. 94 |
| 20 Hayden High School | p. 97 |
| 21 Some Kind of Incentive | p. 103 |
| 22 You've Chosen to Be Mentally Ill | p. 111 |
| 23 Riccardo | p. 112 |
| Photos | p. 119 |
| Part 3 Menninger's: The Foster Home | p. 123 |
| 24 Life with the Harrisons | p. 125 |
| 25 Troy | p. 131 |
| 26 Fantasy will Set You Free | p. 133 |
| 27 Ramada Inn | p. 135 |
| 28 It Chose Me | p. 140 |
| 29 After the Social Club | p. 144 |
| 30 Bertram | p. 147 |
| 31 The Nursing Home | p. 149 |
| 32 The Evangelical Church | p. 153 |
| 33 Cornelius | p. 155 |
| 34 Airplanes | p. 157 |
| 35 Hobie | p. 164 |
| 36 Linda | p. 169 |
| 37 That's a Crutch | p. 173 |
| 38 Moving Out | p. 176 |
| Part 4 On My Own | p. 179 |
| 39 Rooney | p. 181 |
| 40 The Naturopath | p. 188 |
| 41 Autism | p. 195 |
| 42 Tables | p. 203 |
| 43 Kathy Grant | p. 205 |
| 44 Drawing | p. 207 |
| 45 Conferences, Jobs, Noise, Apartments, and Understanding | p. 212 |
| 46 Forgiveness | p. 216 |
| Acknowledgments | p. 222 |
